🙌 On designing your life to work for you:
I spoke to 2 entrepreneurs yesterday and mentioned “today is a ‘want to’ day” for me. I didn’t realize my concept was so abstract until they BOTH said “What?!” 🤷♀️ so I thought I’d share some behind the scenes of my life with all of you.
📆 Mondays I have very set days. Before 2pm I hustle hard with business – I get days worth of work done in 5-6 hours then come 2:00, I’m off to my next part of the day- inner “me” work.
❤️That’s when I go to PTSD therapy (called EMDR) and then a massage afterwards to help me process all that I learned about myself. I do not book ANY appointments that evening including seeing friends. It is truly 100% self love/self care time
🛑 My exec assistant knows not to send me customer complaint issues or other things that could throw me off or distract me from this precious (and sometimes challenging, time)
🥳Come Tuesday I also DO NOT book meetings. Monday has a lot of have-to’s and Tuesday is deemed “want to” day.
🍦 I give myself the time to continue processing the day before. Sometimes I feel quite off or introverted and other times I’m at the studio for hours excitedly working on creating new course videos, but either way- I give myself the leeway to eat ice cream all day or do something highly productive.
🌹Come Wednesday I’m back at it with a nice mix of “have to’s” and “want to’s” – most are a combination of both. For instance, today I’m teaching a LUXE Fluid Art couples class. I “have to” gather a few more supplies this morning for it yet I “want to” do the fun part which is guide a loving couple through a day they’ll never forget as they co-create a piece of art together
🍃Most of my moments are “want to” moments for me and that has been by design. Do more that I love and less that drains me.
🤔 The first step is asking yourself “what do I LOVE to do”? Maybe you love to pick up your kids from school but really don’t like making their lunches.
🤦🏻♀️ Maybe you love painting but feel social media marketing is a “have to”
💭 Think on it! I’d love to hear what parts of your day are “want to’s” for you
Victoria Wynn, CEO WYNN modern art.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Today is the last day of our $100 acrylic online course sale including the 5- star “Winning Strategies To Selling Fine Art Course”
Pic: Me as the water girl I am deep inside for a special shoot I did for no other reason but “want to”
Make up: Heather Shelton